Your Asian mom

Counting down the days for two years until I turn 40 has made me ponder whether I have done well and achieved what is necessary. I have been in the same job for more than ten years now, with no significant career milestones in terms of position or salary increments. Whenever I think about this stagnant progress—despite having access to international-level training—I always remind myself that I am still considered lucky compared to others who have quit their jobs and are in survival mode, without the guarantee of an Employee Provident Fund for retirement planning. To be honest, I consider myself fortunate to have a job that I am passionate about. But, like any overthinker, I also question whether I have become too comfortable in my life, to the point that I am not pushing myself enough to reach my full potential. Taking into account my company’s sunset industry and unsustainable financial management, it might only last another two years. By right, I should have already started working o...

In today’s fast-paced world, we rely heavily on technology for communication, but sometimes, traditional methods can be disruptive.  Recently, I had an experience that got me thinking about the importance of communication decorum. On my off day, I was interrupted by a stranger— a PR person who insisted on calling me about a story written by another agency. The constant ringing not only ruined my mood but also made me question the boundaries of professional communication. This post discusses why phone calls should not always be the default mode of communication and why respecting people’s time, and preferences is essential in maintaining professional relationships. Why Phone Calls Can Be Disruptive Respecting Personal Boundaries in Communication: Phone calls are intrusive, especially when they interrupt personal time. Whether it’s a weekend or an off day, many people value their time away from work. Communication through email or WhatsApp is less invasive and allows individuals to ...