Toddler at 15th month.
I kept telling husband that I don't want another baby now as I know I won't be able to cope to have another young kid in my life. While their adorableness could instantly kill all the negative feelings at other times, but ensuring the tiny human to be well all the time is difficult and require sacrifice in terms of personal freedom and comfort emotionally, and even financially. Having a child at the age of 27, a span of lifetime where I just graduated and start enjoying my income, is a bit too much at this modern age. It is worsened when I am surrounded with unmarried colleagues who might see my routine going back home at sharp 5pm everyday for baby is mere excuse and irresponsible. I do feel bad when I have to repetitively turn their invites down for happy hour after work. My priority is to spend as much time with baby as almost 80 per cent of my days are already being spared in works matter. Our children will grow fast without we realise it, there will be time where she sud...