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I  have heard checking out compability of two persons before deciding to move into romance relationship could save time for both or whether it is worth it to go out before the doom days arrived. In fact, there are people who rather be single than "wasting" time to be together and struggle to sustain the relationship when every second feels like hell.   Whenever I come across with old couples, who are still loving each other after decades, it makes me wonder what are the recipes?  Men are from Mars, while the women are from Venus. Could one of them stand the other who is totally having opposite personality? For example, a man who is a messy, inattentive, insensitive, and etc? For how long?  What is the formula of successful and sustainable love, should it be opposite attraction or having similar traits? Many of our ancestors surviving the marriage despite one of them had been treated unfairly by their spouse. I once asked them why getting d...

As we enter the first week of advent, below is the confession schedule in Kota Kinabalu Archdiocese Dec 3, 2018 (Monday)- St Paul, Dontozidon-(7pm) Dec 3, 2018 (Monday)-Holy Family, Telipok-(730pm) Dec 4, 2018 (Tuesday)- St Augustine, Kinarut- (630pm) Dec 4, 2018 (Tuesday)-St Joseph, Kiulu- (630pm) Dec 5, 2018 (Wednesday)- Stella Maris, Tanjung Aru (630pm) Dec 5, 2018 (Wednesday)-Good Shepherd, Menggatal (7pm) Dec 6, 2018 (Thursday) -St Aloysius, Limbanak (630pm) Dec 6, 2018 (Thursday) -St Philip, Tamparuli (630pm) Dec 7, 2018 (Friday) - Catholic church, Madsiang & Holy Nativity, Terawi (630pm) Dec 10, 2018 (Monday)- Holy Rosary, Limbahau (6.30pm) Dec 10, 2018 (Monday)- St Simon Likas (730pm) Dec 11, 2018 (Tuesday)-St Thomas Kepayan (630pm) Dec 12, 2018 (Wednesday)- St John, Tuaran (630pm) Dec 13, 2018(Thursday)- St Joseph, Papar (630pm) Dec 14, 2018 (Friday) -St Michael, Penampang (630pm) Dec 17, 2018(Monday) Divine Mercy Church, KKIP (7pm) Dec 18, 201...

Let's enjoy the Christmas festivity this Dec 4, 2018.

Time really flies, no kidding. Few more weeks, my one and only child will turn 5. Like all parents, I would say that it is unbelievable how fast they grow from an infant who is fully dependent on their caregivers to today's a preschooler who is slowly learning to be independent. Unlike as frequent as before, what to expect.com used to remind me of my child's expected milestone and development. I think I get less email from them, perhaps every fortnight or month? Image from everydayfamily.com Maybe because of that I often get surprised from things that she is capable of doing by herself. Motor skill Coloring, drawing, writing, cutting paper, tying her own hair and other skills that are required at school.  This can be developed through playing toys specifically clay, arranging blocks, and dolls. Something to improve is her stamina, the girl hardly walk or swim for more than an hour.  She will start whining and the cranky personality will make mommy's worl...

At this era whereby couples are living on their own, especially in the city,  they are indeed need help from someone to take care of the mother and child after the traumatising childbirth experience.  Unfortunately, not every couple has the privilege helper, mother or mother-in-law who can attend to the confinement needs due to several reason, including the availability of the help, experienced mothers have other commitment or just the bad relationship between two generations.   If paying more means happiness to new mother and child, a confinement center will serve another option for mothers to recuperate and "coping" with the arrival of bundle of joy.  The bundle of joy is not necessarily brings someone joy 24/7 as the baby also comes with several issues to deal with such as  newborn jaundice, colic, "insomnia", breastfeeding problem and etc.  Mother who had through labour also needs rest, aside from having to troubleshoot baby's ...

Source:https://asklegal.my/p/laws-trouble-malaysian-general-election-vote-undi.html 1. Accepting food and drinks from strangers 2. Taking ballot papers out of, or bringing them into polling stations 3. Waiting or loitering around polling stations after casting your vote 4. Wearing items of clothing with your favourite party's logo 5. Not giving your employees sufficient time to perform their duties as voters on polling day

Married woman and mother are still being targeted by men It is a naive thought that married women are no longer attractive and men will definitely tick off such group from their list. If there are so many more absurd things being reported in the news, men who find married women attractive is considered as a normal situation. Perhaps in ANCIENT time, married women will stop looking after themselves as they have kind of "secured" a family. But in today's society, women are belonged to the working groups who live with the society that look (and judge) your appearance. Thus, the idea to keep the best shape of their body and appearance is there. In short, a married woman and a mother will still belonged to 'hot woman' that can turn on man (just like in reverse, married man still look appealing to single woman". Speaking of experience, I did encounter several occasions of single men asking me out despite I kept on showing off my wedding band and telli...

Below are the required documents to register your children  at Public schools in Malaysia. The registration has to be made as early as two years before the kids turn 7-year-old, this us to secure their enrollment at a school desired by parents. The registration is usually begin in March 1 until end of the month. 1. Kindergarten latest payment receipt 2. Original and Certified photocopy of  Children Mykid AND birth certificate 3.Certified photocopy of parents' Mykads 4. Photocopy of latest water/electricity bill 5. Two pieces of children's passport photos 6. Pay Slip of 1 month for both parents 7. Marriage certificate.  Additional cases 8. Child adoption certificate 9. Divorce certificate ****************************************************************************** Certification. Certification of documents as mentioned can be done at National Registration Department. The easiest and most convenient place to get it done is at Urban Transformatio...

My birthday falls in February and thus decided to redeem golden screen cinema free movie tickets. Unfortunately,none of the movies screening just right after Chinese New Year are meant for such redemption.  Since I had planned to watch Malaysia's Think Big Big movie, I forked out RM15.50 for the 110 minutes movie (excluding GSC's annoying and wasting time advertisement). Movie Synopsis from GSC  Moon is a happy and confident plus-sized girl. She’s working as a mascot performer in a theme park. She never cares about how other people judge her until she accidentally involved in a slimming competition. She even becomes the “Nation Goddess” who is constantly being watched by the netizen. Getting lost in the fancy internet world, Moon’s life has turned upside down. She loses the support of her parents and even her besties. What can she do to regain her true happiness and win back the people she loves? If you are a Malaysian or Singaporean, you could immediate...

In the beginning, she talked how much she loved her best girlfriend at school. How pretty her friend was...the girl had this dress and that shoes...and how much she wanted to be like her. Then one day, she came home and told me she refused to go to school because that friend been hitting her. Mayday Mayday