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A child with parental love deprivation who found a good lover to fill in the gap-Part 2.

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When I met my husband in 2005 , he was not someone whom I expect to be able to give romance as what I have imagined to be happened in any Disney’s Happily ever after cartoon series. In fact, there were a lot of disagreements even on the slightest matter such as where to eat for dinner, drinking too many sweet drinks, and etc. But strange enough, I chose to stay in the relationship long enough to the extend I accepted his invitation to stay at his parents’ house during holiday break. If I could have afford flight tickets to go back hometown back then, I wouldn’t have the chance to travel to Cameron Highland, Pulau Redang, Pulau Perhentian, Genting Highlands and many places during my undergraduates. We wouldn’t have jointly bought a compact camera and captured so many fond memories, too. Seriously I wouldn’t have the “vision” that two of us get married in the end. Back then, I seconded the idea of staying out of marriage, put thorough focus on career, and even felt honour ...

A child with parental love deprivation who found a good lover to fill in the gap-Part 1.

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Where or who do neglected children usually resort to in order to fill in the years-long of love deprivation indirectly caused by his parents? There are many instances where those children, grow up into teenagers, desperately looking for lovers of their age to get the love and attention. Due to the immature or fantasy thought that their lovers will treat them better for long term, they are willing to get into sex out of wedlock, impregnated and etc.  As a middle child, I lived a life which my parents will put me as later priority than other siblings. Knowing there's no way to get mom's and dad's attention mainly on me, except scoring good result at schools, I had been putting a lot of effort to do well in my study.  But it seemed like my independence on becoming a good child made my parents strayed from their roles to take better care of me. It became more obvious when I studied my diploma and degree away from home.  During that period of about 6 years...

Disgusting Fifty shades of Grey

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I never read the book, but because it seems to be trending among friends and acquaintances, I decided to give a watch a movie based on the book. The first 15 minutes was nice and romantic, an English Literature student Anastasia interviewing a budding entrepreneur Christian which that short moment turned both in love to each other. After the short meeting, it was sweet to see Christian who drove a sport car visiting Ana's workplace. Ana described him well for being intimidating but cant help to fall in love. Below is the song to enhance that "love in the air" feeling. Yeah, as a married woman with a toddler, I do think it is an irresistible situation when a rich man brings a lady in a pilot he flies or appear at the time of "damsel in distress" (In this case, Ana was drunk and almost kissed by her friend Jose) When their relationship progressed, I find its funny when virgin Ana suddenly threw a question on "What's next?Shall we make love?...

How to avoid dying unnecessarily.

The topic is crucial following there're been cases where friends lost their loved one at sudden notice most often usually due to heart attack or stroke. The first thing to do is to have full medical checkup. It is important to know current health status so one could take necessary to live healthy lifestyle, or maybe alert own condition to others. Others deserve to know so they are better prepared. After that one shall take initiative in living healthier lifestyle such as exercise and eat Healthily. By 30, one could eat as much as possible providing they work out as much as they eat. Easy guideline is a muffin is equivalent to running 2km or Walking for 5km. The universal workout requirement is 10km a day which covers about 8km. If there is time constraint, eat less on carbohydrate and junk food especially. Add a lot of veggie and fruits. Once we reach 30 and above, metabolism will slow down. The body will have no mercy on the human kind as we tend to get fat faster even with ...

Penance services during lent 2015- Kota Kinabalu archdiocese

March 16, 2015- Holy Nativity, Terawi 630pm March 17, 2015 St Catherine Inanam  630pm March 18, 2015 St Michael Penampang 630pm March 24 and 25 Sacred Heart Cathedral 630pm.

Holy week and Confession schedule at St Michael Penampang, Sabah for Lent 2015.

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St Michael Church, Penampang. Holy Thursday (02/04/2015) 8pm Fr Fundes M Good Friday (03/04/2015) 2pm Fr Wiandigol R Easter Vigil (04/04/2015) 9pm Fr Fundes M Easter Sunday (05/04/2015) 730am and 1030am Fr Wiandigol  ***************************************************** Confession sacrament.  March 10  MIC Sukang Mabpai 9am March 12 St Benedict T. Sugud 9am March 16  St Paul, Bisuang 10am March 17 (For senior citizen) St Aloysus, Limbanak 8am-10am March 18 St Michael, Penampang 8am- 10am and 630pm March 24 (For senior citizen) St Michael Penampang 8am-10am   More information contact the office at 088711009/088715804 during office hour. Why Catholics have to go confession during Lent season? We are all sinners, whoever saying he or she is without sins is a liar.  The act, which reflect repentance, is also an occasion to demonstrate trust in God's willingness to forgive His  Children and to he...

Lent season is a good time to lose fat

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As lent 2015 begins on the day of first day lunar year, it is rightly remind believers not to be glutton and eat less meat. Coincidentall, I also reached 28. A great reminder on how fast the aging process will take place if I don't take care of my diet. When I came back from Penang, I forced myself to get into juice~fasting diet. It is either I drink 5~colors of fruits juice or eat them raw. Watched many Korean movies, the family usually juicing. Judge on theIR skin complexion and smoothness. It is worth practice in my life. As I'm a beginner for such diet, plus I didn't prepare for it days before,I suffered withdrawal symptom. I shivered and had light headedness.And drinking a lot of water actually helps to alleviate the suffering. However, as I was alone in taking care of toddler that few days. I cheated in having few spoons of oat porridge. Picture shown is cauliflower and lettuce. Surprisingly, I felt full from noon to late evening. The portion can be eaten twice...