Your Asian mom

I am really a simple girl, I mean I can make myself really convenient to anyone. I would want to do it provided other party is doing the same thing, too. But, why despite of me being so nice and tolerant, that other party are still willing to hurt me? How do they feel after succeeded in making me pain?

A trip to Melbourne The whole week together with the future in law, living under same roof, sleeping with the mother-in-law was initially awful and thought I was too young to handle a role as someone's wife or in-law family. The 'ambush' of having to accept someone's else big family was totally indigestible. There were so many differences that I was counting down the days at every seconds. I grew up going back to my late grandpa's house which is at the hilly part of hometown. I get used with the cold weather. I don't feel cold but enjoy the breeze in the country that we visited.  But the whole family kept on convincing me that it was cold, and the clothes that I wore would not be enough, and I should had wear thicker. I hated that. I am a lass who get on tampered when people nag me for more than thrice. But, I endured it and enjoyed the coldness. Having Chinese cuisine in western country can be disastrous, the quality of the rice was so bad that I got st

Had been doing overtime recently, to finish work prior to family vacation. I realised that after working hour, when everyone had headed home, I kind of enjoy doing my work alone at my department. Just love the peaceful surrounding, no incoming calls, no distraction from colleagues, bosses are not around to check out work process. I found that I am more efficient at this time. Since I like it so much, I am grateful that I am still single, and of course without having to take care my own child yet.

I don't mean it as being SINGLE. I meant it as coming back from work, having to eat alone at home (to add salt to the wound, is having to tapau food from outside, and over times, get sick to think of what to eat for dinner). How I ended up being alone? It is because of me being ambitious to work for so-called big company. To add on that, my papa used to tell me on girl should find her own career, so that when a guy or husband is no longer love me, then I still can be independent. The father-daughter advise has since instilled me the mindset that I have to be the best, possibly better than guys in every aspects. Tada, so here I am...being alone after work. It takes courage to do this 'alone' thing, in targeted time period of 2 years. The most important thing is to set the mind right- by convincing myself that being alone period is the time for me to enjoy my youth, without restriction,- it is more time to admire myself, do whatever thing is fun without having to worr