Your Asian mom

Met an ex over a dinner few days ago. Our last proper conversation was about ten years ago. Below are the direct conversation took place in a restaurant. Him: Oh yeah, I just had my third child last month.  Me: Oh, congrats. Your wife is wonderful for willing to give you three children.  Him: Well, I was quite surprised when she broke the pregnancy news. Told her to triple check and I even bought her one test kit to make sure the pregnancy is real.  (Hmm, I would be upset if my husband who had sex with me without condom queried my pregnancy. I can't have a clueless man on pregnancy happens when there is no protection). Me: Why you stop going to church? Isn't that you have to set a good example to your kids on the importance of having faith in their religion? Him: Im working 12 hours a day, I only want to sleep once I reach home. Even my eldest son said something to me, I just said "ermm" and continue to sleep.  Me: What a terrible f...

Grey's anatomy season 12 is all about recalling memories. It says it is very unique on how the brain arranges memories on different people. The saying makes sense to me when an ex, perhaps the first love, approached me again recently. The so-called relationship happened when I was 16. I was intrigued that the four years senior at school wanted me to become his girlfriend.  We went out for only one date and bade farewell two days later as the ex departed to Indonesia for a five years of sailor course. During the farewell, he asked me to wait for him to come back and gave a cheek kiss. He looked sincere and I was naive. I had foolishly believed we could withstand the long distance relationship for 5 years.  For almost a year, I had been hopeful on the relationship...until his then girlfriend broke the news that I became third party between them. I got the scolding and thought it was so unfair to me. Thus I would be mad whenever he wis...