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When in-law comes in between husband and I

It is most likely will hurt both husband and wife. It is an epic that most mother-in-law will have issue with her son's wife. But in my case, it is the other way round, I have issue with her as I mentioned in previous post on how annoying she is to the extent her nagging voice emerged in my few nights dreams. She turned me into someone who was allergic to be at home..I usually woke up walking at highest speed from bedroom to my car, and at night tried my best to be home late, had my dinner and locked myself in room. And , it is worsened when husband was not around to shield me from all the negative element. Initially, I thought to just swallow the uneasiness feeling as it would hurt husband to know how much I dislike the old lady who has raised him. But until mom-in-law said she wanted to be in the same room with me and baby during my confinement period-and without my husband. I almost broke down knowing my whole month of confinement period would turn me into a looney for bei

Pre-marriage course at Kota Kinabalu Sacred Heart Cathedral.

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Just admit that it's not easy to be with in-laws under one roof.

Yes, it is going to be a bitchy session...about my mother-in-law. Initially,  I do appreciate that she would share the house chore with me especially I am in the midst of busy working schedule. But, as days pass by, I realised that the interaction between us had actually getting into my nerves especially on my off day where I was with her at home for the whole day. I have very low tolerance in having people nag me over the same matter. So, when it comes to same question being asked for more than three times (in her case, it will be at least five times), that's where I will start to whine and get really irritated. And even worse, I was asked for very obvious answer, i.e It was raining, "It's raining, isn't it?," or when the clock short hand pointed at 3, and the other at 12, " its 3pm already, isn't it?". I complained to husband on that, he backed his mother by telling me she was just trying to have conversation with me. Fine. It may sound c

At 25th week of pregnancy

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When I was at my 25th week pregnancy, I looke like a skinny girl with slightly enlarged tummy or bloated.  People could have thought that I had any gastrointestinal disease such as ascites, cancer. Sometimes, some of them associated me with alcoholic girl. But when they found out that I am 6-month pregnant, they'll say "oh, I was kind of notice your tummy, I thought you have put on weight, that's why I didn't ask earlier,".   Follow up question will be "how many months?" and usually will put up surprise facial expression with the size in compare to the gestation age. Beside that, I will have special treatment such as people allow and insist me to sit as compared to previously. As I had been so tough before this, the treatment sort of gave me the feeling that I am a handicapped although the truth is at current state, I do need to sit and will be better if I am allowed to lie down during working hour. In terms of clothing, particularly for work purpose,