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A colleague was sharing her frustration over a betrayal made by her friend. She uttered this,"I thought if he/she is my friend, she should not have spreading bad words on me to others,". I've been having the thought that anyone in this world will always talk something bad about me, with different severity.  And, am quite surprised that when the senior said that things, it comes to my senses that that is how friendship should be. How can we call someone a friend of us, when we badmouth about him/her? where's the purity and genuine of the beautiful relationship. Lesson learned. I should treat my friends better starting now...what about you?

In short, my humble opinion is NO. Individuals usually will think that there's always well-paid jobs in a rapid development area. And thus, the area becomes highly densed. In relates to their purchasing power, everyone needs to have cars to travel despite the presence of  public transport in town. Take an instance in Kuala Lumpur and Selangor areas. Despite local authorities have been resurfacing the affected roads, there's always  potholes mis-aligning our car tyres.Gush of cars at peak hours also contribute to massive traffic jams. It has been a rampant issue, that people double park(and can go up to triple) their cars without feeling guilty at all, this phenomena can be seen in Brickfields, which is done to buy things at the Little India.   Again, local councils have to station its enforcement officers to stand and tell (summon) the public, "Sir, you cannot do double parking as it will affect the traffic flow". Public complains that there's not enough

Be it woman or man, both have the tendency to cheat each other, even before or after married. I am not generalising everyone. But, shit happens. Recently, I heard a lot unfaithful stories shared among relatives and friends. And some affair lasts forever without being exposed to the so called 'legal' partner, and of course the couple literally live a happy life. The other case, when the vice activity is exposed, it brings hurt to the victim whether or not the accused is willing to discontinue the affair. Eventhough the offender is willing to turn a new leaf afterward, it is hardly for the victimised partner to have faith in the relationship. It comes to a good argument whether should grant the offender a pardon, as deep in the heart, still doubting him/her will repeat and thus cause greater pain and regret. What if cheating runs in the gene? What if long distance trigger the desire to cheat again? what if .... Be it Mars or Venus, both love to be loved and love. Unless

Attended Good Friday Mass in Kuala Lumpur for the first time. It was also the inaugural period where I kept on receiving "Happy good Friday" wishes. Appreciate that people are remembering Good Friday here in Peninsular Malaysia country despite there's never public holiday here for the Christians. In short, Good Friday is a day to commemorate the crucifixion of Jesus- Someone glorious died on a cross because he was betrayed. The most respectful teacher to the Christians is literally 'crucified' by his students aka us. To me the act by the people, which include me, is the enormous betrayal. That, has made me mournful and sorrowful the whole day. The first text message congratulating the dead of the Christ disturbed me, and I explained. And, the rest kept on coming and I felt like turning off my phone as I am thinking why people of other religion are saying something rejoice on this sad day. Why???? Today homily, the priest was saying that Good Friday is actu

Each of the element is actually killing each other, if exercise in extreme manner. I remember my lecturer used to tell that women are more prone to this problem. "You cannot be excel in both,". And the future sister in law keeps on reminding me that woman has to glue herself to the husband, so guys will not cheat. I say:" Bullshit, despite of slaving myself as the free maid for the guy, if he determines to change his heart, then he will". Marriage can be like a full time job, and the current job will be secondary. When it is secondary, it means the quality of the work is not up to the par. So??  Perhaps, if only the husband is being supportive to the wife's career, there would be hope?