Your Asian mom

Married woman and mother are still being targeted by men It is a naive thought that married women are no longer attractive and men will definitely tick off such group from their list. If there are so many more absurd things being reported in the news, men who find married women attractive is considered as a normal situation. Perhaps in ANCIENT time, married women will stop looking after themselves as they have kind of "secured" a family. But in today's society, women are belonged to the working groups who live with the society that look (and judge) your appearance. Thus, the idea to keep the best shape of their body and appearance is there. In short, a married woman and a mother will still belonged to 'hot woman' that can turn on man (just like in reverse, married man still look appealing to single woman". Speaking of experience, I did encounter several occasions of single men asking me out despite I kept on showing off my wedding band and telli...

When I was 18, there were few things I expected seem to be a distance  10 years later  now. Career   2006 To secure a place at public university means I will be having a good job with good money and satisfaction career. 2010-2016 A sports car worth almost a house. Three-storey house is about three sports cars. Someone who surprises me during my birthday, "monthsary", treat me like a princess, sweet and romantic, good kisser. Upon graduation, there were limited posts for the job related to my degree especially back in hometown in Sabah. Landed few months job as a tutor for primary and secondary students with RM700 monthly wages. Capitalist boss deducted RM100 per day without notice after I returned from three-day graduation ceremony. Second job offered a slightly higher pay of RM1,200. Lasted for a year. But I was really struggling financially. After EPF and socso deduction, car loan of rm470 every month, I really could not save money....

First and most important rule NEVER choose/become one unless it is unavoidable for cases like the husband is sick, a marine or serving the country and etc. As for now, I am literally a single mom who have chosen not to follow husband to peninsular Malaysia for his two years studies. Now, it has been four months (only). I have already felt the pinch of having to struggle alone in making both work, toddler and everything alright. There had been bad occassions such as earthquake, car broke down, problematic babysitter and work overloads that made myself miserable in coping and swallowing them all by myself. When I bring the toddler out and see others have both of their parents, I really hope it won't hurt my toddler who might question, "where is her daddy?" But I know I have to set formula to make me survive those perils. 1/Ask blessing, courage and protection from God.  Be at any condition, we need His help to protect and bless what we do and ...