Your Asian mom

Met an ex over a dinner few days ago. Our last proper conversation was about ten years ago. Below are the direct conversation took place in a restaurant. Him: Oh yeah, I just had my third child last month.  Me: Oh, congrats. Your wife is wonderful for willing to give you three children.  Him: Well, I was quite surprised when she broke the pregnancy news. Told her to triple check and I even bought her one test kit to make sure the pregnancy is real.  (Hmm, I would be upset if my husband who had sex with me without condom queried my pregnancy. I can't have a clueless man on pregnancy happens when there is no protection). Me: Why you stop going to church? Isn't that you have to set a good example to your kids on the importance of having faith in their religion? Him: Im working 12 hours a day, I only want to sleep once I reach home. Even my eldest son said something to me, I just said "ermm" and continue to sleep.  Me: What a terrible father you a

When I was 18, there were few things I expected seem to be a distance  10 years later  now. Career   2006 To secure a place at public university means I will be having a good job with good money and satisfaction career. 2010-2016 A sports car worth almost a house. Three-storey house is about three sports cars. Someone who surprises me during my birthday, "monthsary", treat me like a princess, sweet and romantic, good kisser. Upon graduation, there were limited posts for the job related to my degree especially back in hometown in Sabah. Landed few months job as a tutor for primary and secondary students with RM700 monthly wages. Capitalist boss deducted RM100 per day without notice after I returned from three-day graduation ceremony. Second job offered a slightly higher pay of RM1,200. Lasted for a year. But I was really struggling financially. After EPF and socso deduction, car loan of rm470 every month, I really could not save money. Curr