Your Asian mom

  She has finished primary school . Just like that. My daughter is 12, turning 13 — standing at the doorway of secondary school , with a confidence that surprises me and a gentleness that still feels familiar.  I teared up thinking about the years it took to get here: the sleepless nights, the scraped knees, the lunches packed in a rush, the conversations before bedtime that stretched longer than planned.  Somehow, all of that shaped her into this beautiful young lady. There are moments when I wish she were still the baby I once held so closely. Moments when I wish I were still the mother she always needed — the center of her small universe.  But when I watch her laugh with her friends, fully present in their companionship, I understand that her world has expanded. She has new priorities now, and that is exactly how it should be. Secondary school awaits her, and I know it will be demanding — packed schedules, new expectations, new pressures.  Im growing as well....

The year-end holiday season is upon us! It's a time for joy, reflection, and connection.  But for many, it also brings a flurry of stress, overspending, and an overwhelming carbon footprint.  What if this year, we embraced a different approach? An approach that prioritizes mindful celebration, genuine connection, and sustainability, all while keeping your bank account happy and your stress levels low. Let's ditch the frantic consumerism and dive into a year-end holiday that truly rejuvenates your mind, body, and spirit, without breaking the bank or the planet. 1 . Prioritize Presence Over Presents: Thoughtful Gifting The pressure to buy endless gifts can be immense. This year, shift your focus from quantity to quality and thoughtfulness. Experience Gifts: Instead of another trinket, consider gifting experiences. Tickets to a local museum, a cooking class, a nature hike voucher, or even a homemade coupon for a shared meal can create lasting memories. Handmade & DIY: Unlea...