Love is for everyone, you just need some luck and hardwork.

Last month I listened enough not-so-proper relationships going on among circles of friends. 

One of them is a mother of two young children who separated with the husband. As a mother whose husband is away, I truly understand the hardship to raise a child on my own. The woman's male colleague, of a different religion, is willing to look after the mom and sons. Perhaps the assistance that drives the woman to stay with that man, and impregnated. But again due to religion differences and she is still considered as a woman who is still married to husband, not much can be done. Therefore, she carries the baby without a legit father.

While we heard endless cheating husbands/boyfriends stories, but it could happen to women. A lady was boyfriends-hopping whenever she travels. The man, who claims himself to be victimised by those kinds of female-version Casanova, was sought after the lady's marriage out of pregnancy didn't work out. 

"Some said it was the husband's fault for impregnated her when she was drunk, but it was still her fault for going out with her and get drunk". The man seems to lose hope on finding his soul mate.

Above two are just part of the complicated relationships that have been going on in the society. 

Never thought to be in love or to be loved at the right time with right persons can be difficult for some. It is a matter of luck and if without good luck one may end up being single. But there's saying that its better to be alone than get stucked with horrible partner for life.

I guess I am lucky enough to have someone legit to love and be loved. Married at the age of 27, have a baby after that and survived fourth year of marriage.

I am not saying my still work well relationship happened without any struggle in between or maybe in future. I did work on making it work by sacrificing some of my needs such as doing house chores, slow down in career and give more time for the family. 

I was hurt once, but it was only once. It is merely a mistake which if he is willing to repent is forgivable. True love will pass those tests eventhough it means one will get hurt a bit along the way. 

Talked to a single guy friend about complicated relationships. He said there was no way for the pregnant friend to get back to here husband, but I have faith the hold spirit will work their magic in reviving their relationship. There is no sins God can't forgive which mean partner should accept the other one as they have vowed in the church...

"Till death do us apart". 

With that note....

I would like to wish Happy Valentine's day to all couples and for singles, you will definitely find one. 

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Below is the commercial should be seen during this Valentine's and will be better to be applied most of the days.